Lucky Mama here. I’m writing the final post (as far as we know) here at Little Rock Mamas.
After six years, life has taken us in very separate directions. Cathy has moved back home to Texas; Heidi’s husband was transferred to the Charlotte, N.C.-area; and I’m still rocking it here in North Little Rock.
Thank you for reading us for these past six years. We enjoyed sharing our lives with you — and hearing about yours as well!
It has been a great ride, and we’re glad you were with us for the duration!
Lucky Mama (Yavonda), Margarita Mama (Heidi) and Arkie Mama (Cathy)
Note: This is a sponsored post; however, all opinions are mine and all items were selected by me.
Christmas, Christmas time is here. Time for love and time for cheer.
Time for figuring out the perfect gift for everyone in your life.
Oh wait, I don’t think that’s the line. But that’s definitely what many of us try to do at the holidays, which can be a little stressful. Well have no fear, Little Rock Mamas and The Promenade at Chenal are here to help with our Christmas Gift Guide.
There are TONS of fantastic stores at the Promenade, so if you don’t find the perfect item in this gift guide, just head on over there. I’m betting you’ll find EXACTLY what you’re looking for.
First up, let’s start with the kiddos.
Crazy 8 sells adorable clothes, sleepwear, socks and shoes for girls and boys. Whether you need to pick up jeans and a T-shirt or something more dressy, they’ve got you covered and at great prices.
The Children’s Place
The Children’s Place also has the cutest clothes and accessories for boys and girls. This year, I noticed that they had some really great watches if you’ve got a little girl into princesses or Frozen. And some of their Star Wars T-shirts just cracked me up.
Justice is a great place to find gifts sure to delight the tween girls (and younger) in your lives. They’ve got clothes, purses, bath stuff, perfumes, stuffed animals, fun pillows, etc.
Now we’ve got some great gift ideas for all of the women in your life. Whether you’re trying to find jewelry or handbags for mom, a heartfelt gift for your best friend or fabulous decorations for the home, you’re in luck at the Promenade.
Charming Charlie is all about accessories. If you’re looking for a handbag, they’ve got it. Scarf? Watch? Jewelry? Hat? Check. They even sell some clothing items now. Even better, they carry stock in a wide assortment of colors, so you have plenty to choose from.
Lily Rain is the newest store at The Promenade. It opened earlier in November. If you’re looking for lots of variety, check out Lily Rain. They have clothing, handbags (including reversible leather totes that are so stylish), Swell water bottles, funny mugs, ceramics with touching messages, jewelry, candles, bath stuff, stuffed animals and puzzles for kids.
Tipton & Hurst
If you thought Tipton & Hurst was just flowers, you’ve been missing out. Their store at The Promenade is a decorator’s dream. I only WISH my Christmas tree could be as beautiful as the ones in their showroom. But what a great place to find gorgeous ornaments and other Christmas decorations, festive serving dishes, unique frames, candles and a wide variety of Aromatique products.
Are you still scratching your head about the perfect gift? Sometimes the best gift you can give grandparents, especially if they live far away, is a family portrait. Who doesn’t love pictures of their family?
Portrait Innovations is a photo studio located in the Promenade. They have a knowledgeable and friendly staff who will take good care of you. There are a variety of backgrounds to use during the photo shoot. After the shoot, you immediately sit down at a computer station with an employee to look at your photos. You select the pictures you want to purchase, and they are printed in minutes at the store.
To make an appointment, visit their website or call (501) 821-0168.
The Promenade also offers some free photo opportunities this holiday season. Santa and the Missus will be available Saturdays throughout the season, while the Snow Queen, Ice Princess and Olaf the snowman will be at the 8th Annual Celebration of Lights, which has been rescheduled for Saturday, Dec. 5.
And don’t forget your coupons for lots of great deals at the Promenade!
This is a sponsored post. All opinions belong to me.
If you’re never been to one of the Talk With Your Mouth Full events, you are missing out.
There were so many yummy bites, it was hard to know where to start. Promenade restaurants — A.W. Lin’s Asian Cuisine, Big Orange Burgers, Bonehead’s Grill, Bravo! Cucina Italiana, Cafe Brunelle, Del Fresco’s Grill, Local Lime, Maggie Moo’s Ice Cream & Treatery, Menchie’s Frozen Yogurt and YaYa’s Euro Bistro — all had booths at the event, offering up some of their tasty cuisine.
Heidi, aka Margarita Mama, and I were able to sample food from A.W. Lin’s, Del Fresco’s Grill, Local Lime and YaYa’s. Everything was delicious, but I think the Ahi tuna tacos from Del Fresco’s were my favorite. The tuna tartare and guacamole were so refreshing on a warm evening. The restaurant just opened, and I’m thinking Matt and I will have to pay them a visit very soon!
There were also tons of networking opportunities. I will admit — I’m really bad at networking. I get very shy in crowds and would prefer to people watch. Luckily, I ran into one of my fellow Arkansas Women Bloggers and my roommate from the past three years of AWBU. Christie Ison, the founder of ARFoodJobs.com, and her husband, Joe, were at the event. So we chatted for a while, and they introduced me to some of their friends.
It was a fun evening. Heidi and I capped it off with cocktails and spinach dip at Bravo!
Note: Thanks to the Angela Rogers Group for providing my family with tickets to the circus for this review. All opinions expressed in this post belong to me.
Wow, just wow. The Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Built to Amaze! circus is well, amazing.
The show has the perfect blend of silliness, talented animals and death-defying stunts to delight the whole family. And if your family is anything like my family, everyone will have their favorite act.
For Alaina, the best acts involved the horses, dogs and elephants, aka all of the animal acts. And she’s right — the animals were pretty incredible.
The most impressive of the animal/human acts was the Zoppe Equestrian one. Picture gorgeous horses running around a ring while incredibly talented acrobats perform back handsprings, back somersaults and flip from one horse to another. It was well, amazing.
Then there were the adorable (and funny!) dogs. They elicited quite a few “awws” out of Alaina as she watched them prance around in dresses, ride a scooter, take turns on the slide and other fun tricks.
The animal stars of the show were the elephants, Asia and little April. Earlier this year, Ringling Bros. announced that it would retire all of the elephants by 2018. This was the first show I’ve seen since that announcement and I thought the elephants played a greater role than in past performances. While Asia was the grand dame of the show, April was so stinking adorable. I’ve never seen a young elephant before, so this was quite a treat.
While Matt and I enjoyed the animal acts immensely, we were both awed by the Wheel of Steel. I think the best way to describe it is take two giant hamster wheels, suspend them like a Ferris wheel and then let two guys loose in the contraption. At one point, Cristhian Marquez and Carlos Morales are on the outside of the wheels, jumping rope. Yup, it was amazing.
Then there was the hand-balancing act. I can’t imagine having the kind of strength and control that it would take to balance on your head on a replica of the Eiffel Tower.
While the clowns were certainly funny, I think the act that made me laugh hardest was the King Charles Troupe. How can you go wrong with a spirited basketball game on unicycles? Especially when the unicycles get taller as the game heats up?
If you’re heading to the circus, I recommend going early for the pre-show. Your kids will love getting to sit ringside for a few minutes. During the Thursday night show, we got to watch Asia show off her painting skills.
And speaking of painting, check out the face painting booth. For $10, your child can be transformed into a clown, an orange tiger, a white tiger or a dog. Alaina decided she wanted to be an orange tiger.
We had an absolute blast at the Built to Amaze! show. The show really was, you guessed it, amazing. The circus will be at Verizon Arena in North Little Rock all weekend with three showings on Saturday (11 a.m., 3 p.m. and 7 p.m.) and one at 2 p.m. on Sunday. Ticket prices range between $16.80 and $50.65 (for ringside).
We have the perfect giveaway to help you and your family celebrate the first week of school — 4 tickets to the Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Built to Amaze circus!
* Thanks to the Angela Rogers Group and Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey for providing us with the ticket vouchers to this night of family fun. *
The circus runs Thursday through Sunday with 7 p.m. performances on Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights at Verizon Arena in North Little Rock. Saturday also has an 11 a.m. and 3 p.m. showing, while Sunday has only the 2 p.m. performance.
And don’t forget the Pre-show, which starts an hour before the actual circus begins. It is your chance to meet some of the performers and animals and try your hand at an act or two.
So who wants to go to the circus? Leave me a comment telling me who wants to see the circus more — you or your kids. I’ll randomly draw the lucky winner on Tuesday evening. Good luck!
Note: The winner will need to be able to redeem the ticket vouchers at Verizon Arena’s box office.
Ten years ago, I walked down the aisle and promised to love and cherish Matt forever.
It is the still the best decision I’ve ever made.
My dearest, we may have a few more lines on our faces and a few more pounds on our frames, but you still make my heart flutter. Every day, I am amazed by how wonderful a father you are to our daughter. She is so blessed to have you. And every day, I am so fortunate to have you to share the highs and the lows, the laughter and the tears.
Happy 10th Anniversary, Matt — and here’s to many, many more.
This morning as Alaina was waking me up for hugs and kisses before camp, she suddenly sang me a little song.
Apparently, Matt had read Love You Forever, written by Robert Munsch and illustrated by Sheila McGraw, to Alaina this morning, which must have inspired her. Her song was a beautiful gift on a morning I definitely needed it.
While it isn’t unusual for Alaina to sing me a song if I ask her to, it is quite unusual for her to sing one unsolicited. That made it all the more special.
So what sort of special gifts have your kiddos given you that really touched you?
Note: This is the post I’ve NEEDED, and been unable, to write for the past few months. Please bear with me as I attempt to put months of worrying into words.
Alaina will be repeating kindergarten next school year.
There I’ve said it, or more accurately, I’ve written it.
This may be old news to many of you. As Matt and I struggled to decide what was best for Alaina, I’ve reached out to a number of you. You’ve given me good advice, you’ve comforted me when I agonized over this decision, and for that, I thank you.
This decision has been the elephant in the room at our home this year. Yes, this entire year. And it is the reason I haven’t been blogging much. When it came to my child, THIS was what on my mind and my heart. THIS was what kept me awake at night. THIS was what made me sick to my stomach.
But I couldn’t write about it. Part of me felt I needed to protect Alaina from others knowing that she was struggling. Part of me felt it didn’t do much good to talk publicly about it until we knew what we were going to do. After all, if she suddenly had a major breakthrough in the last few weeks of kindergarten, why put her struggles out there?
And part of me just hurt and was angry — why was my child struggling? Hasn’t she struggled enough? When does she just get to enjoy childhood?
If you are new to this blog — aka you can’t remember when it was called Baby and the Beasts — you may be completely confused now. So let’s go back to the very beginning.
Alaina was born July 26, 2009. She was a full-term baby — actually she was four days overdue, which I mention because it was JULY in ARKANSAS! It was hot and I was really fat and ready to get the whole pregnancy business over with! I went into labor on a Saturday night, was given pitocin on Sunday morning to up the contractions and then proceeded over the next 5 1/2 hours to dilate to approximately the width of a pinkie finger. Alaina entered this world through a C-section.
Life was good.
She was healthy, and she and Matt slept in my room that first night. Matt woke me up every two hours to feed her, just like the nurses told us too. I was exhausted, but so very happy.
The next morning I sent Matt home to take a shower and pick up a few thing we had forgotten to pack. The lactation consultant came in to help me with nursing, and my world came crashing down.
While the consultant was changing Alaina’s diaper to get her to wake up to nurse, she realized Alaina was pooping vaginally. A flurry of activity then ensued. Someone from the nursery came to take Alaina. That nurse called the pediatrician who had examined Alaina that morning and found her to be perfectly healthy back to the hospital. I called Matt in tears and told him what was happening. He rushed back to the hospital.
In short order, we were told that Alaina had an imperforate anus (she had no anal opening) with a vaginal fistula. Because Alaina could poop (and was doing so a lot), the doctor and nurses had missed the malformation. But Alaina needed immediate surgery, so she was whisked to Arkansas Children’s Hospital. She would spend the next 12 days recovering from a surgery to create stomas so she could poop into an ostomy bag.
She had a bag for just shy of six months. At the third month, she had a surgery to create an anal opening. Once that healed, her stomas were closed off to allow her to poop normally. Or almost normally. She doesn’t have all of the nerves that most of us have, so she doesn’t get as much warning that she needs to go. And her muscles aren’t nearly as effective at buying her time to get the bathroom. Accidents happen — and this year, they happened a lot.
But she isn’t repeating kindergarten because of poop.
After the surgeries, Alaina had a physical developmental delay. She was slow to crawl and slow to walk. When she was about 18 months old, Alaina started physical therapy, which she has been in ever since. Her core muscles are weak, which leads to weakness in her extremities. It just never occurred to us that those muscles would get in the way of her education — but they did.
We were a little nervous about sending Alaina to kindergarten this school year. She turned 5 a mere six days before the Aug. 1 cut-off. But the teachers at Alaina’s preschool thought she was ready, so off she went.
She had a wonderful kindergarten teacher, who at the first parent-teacher conference brought in two therapists and the school’s counselor to set up a 504 plan for Alaina. We decided she needed 30 minutes, twice a week, of physical therapy and occupational therapy. She also continued her hour of physical therapy a week at a private clinic. For the first time since Alaina aged out of the Early Child Intervention program at 3 years old, she was getting all of the physical therapy that her doctor wanted her to have. (Our insurance capped at 30 the number of sessions a year they would pay for and unfortunately, I didn’t know we could petition for more sessions until much later.)
Other physical accommodations were made for Alaina as well, such as a special chair to give her more support in the computer room, where the desks were much too large for her.
That meeting was the first sign for us that Alaina’s physical delays were going to be a problem in kindergarten. The teacher and therapists told us Alaina seemed to tired all of the time, especially in the afternoons. At first I thought she was just missing her nap — but really she had really already given up the nap, except in rare circumstances.
So Matt and I took Alaina to various doctors, who could find no answer for the tiredness. We and Alaina’s 504 team finally decided that she used up so much more energy than other children just sitting up in a chair all day. Without strong core muscles, it required real effort for her to sit still or to hold herself in the proper writing position so she could work on her letters and numbers.
But as the therapy continued, Alaina started to make real progress. Her climbing and running improved. She could do sit ups if someone held her feet. Before this year, Alaina couldn’t do a sit up — the muscles in her stomach simply weren’t strong enough.
Academically, Alaina excelled in some areas, while struggling in others. In one of those things that surprised absolutely no one, Alaina is doing well in reading. I guess that is to be expected when mom is a journalist and dad is a college-level English and composition instructor. If there is one thing we do a lot at our house, it is read.
Math was another matter. She just wasn’t making progress in that subject at school, although she could answer math questions at home. It wasn’t until the end of the school year when we finally realized what might be the problem — math was taught at the end of the day.
Alaina’s energy stores were depleted by then. And with only a 20-minute lunch time, she wasn’t having enough time to eat enough food to recharge. In February we had started sending a lunch from home so she could avoid the line, but it wasn’t enough — or maybe it was too little, too late. (In good news, we’ve written an in-class snack into her 504 plan for next year in hopes that it will help her be more productive in the afternoons.)
And then there was writing. Writing was where all of Alaina’s physical weaknesses just seemed to conspire against her. While she made progress, she was still well behind where she needed to be to move on to first grade.
So in late February at parent/teacher conferences, Alaina’s 504 team brought up retention with us. I can’t say that we were surprised — Matt and I had already discussed our concerns that she might not be ready. Elementary school has changed a lot since I was kid. Kindergarten is basically what first grade (and maybe a bit of second) was for us. I’m not sure, but I think they may introduce algebra in first grade now. *kidding, sorta*
But either way, it was a punch to the gut to hear the words. I was pretty stoic in the first half of the meeting, but eventually, I broke down. I just couldn’t help it — my heart hurt so much for my little girl. I wondered how we’d tell her that she wasn’t going to move up with her friends. I was afraid kids would make fun of her. I was afraid her self-esteem would be crushed.
After the shock passed, I told a few people. I also reached out to some teachers I’ve known for years and asked them if they would assess Alaina. Their assessments confirmed what we were hearing from educators at Alaina’s school. She wasn’t ready for first grade.
By late April, Matt and I had made our decision to retain Alaina. But we didn’t tell her until after we had signed the formal paperwork in mid-May.
She seemed completely unfazed by the news. I hope that remains the case. I can’t bear the thought of her sweet little spirit being dinged or damaged by this. I pray that other children are kind. I pray her new classmates never realize this is her second round of kindergarten. (The good news is she is pretty small, so she won’t stand out in that way.) I hope that her classmates from this past year don’t tease her. I know I can’t protect her from injuries and slights forever, but that doesn’t keep me from trying.
And now I’ve told you.
I’ve debated about this post. Is it right to discuss my daughter’s struggles in this forum? Is this even my story to tell? This blog, from its earliest incarnation to now, has always been Alaina-focused. I’ve talked about her health problems, her therapy, her successes, her struggles. But this post felt different — I wondered if this would be something she would resent me writing about when she was older.
I wrestled with these questions for months and in the end, I had to write this post. If I didn’t, I don’t think I would have been able to continue this blog. This has been on my heart all year — for six very long months. If I chose not to tell this story, I would have been lying — to you and to myself.
So I end this post with a request for prayers (from those of you who pray) or for good thoughts (from those of you who don’t.) Please pray that this next year is exactly what Alaina needs — and that she has a wonderful kindergarten redux.
And pray for me, specifically that I have peace. There are moments when I see my friends’ children doing so well at school and in sports, and I am jealous. I am happy for them, but I also want to scream, ‘WHY must my child struggle so much?’ ‘When does she get that childhood?’ I rage and I hurt. But then I see friends whose children are struggling much more than my child ever has. I see friends whose sons are battling Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy, a fatal condition that has seen numerous research breakthroughs in recent years, but still no cure. I see a high school friend whose beautiful baby was diagnosed with cancer just shy of her first birthday. That beautiful child smiles in all of her pictures on Facebook, even as she undergoes chemotherapy. In those moments, I am humbled. I weep. I remember I am blessed, and I finally feel peace.
And with peace, I remember that life and parenting are not always easy, but they are wonderful.
I’ve been a bit quiet here these past few months. In fact, I think I could describe it as radio silence.
There was lots of stuff going on in my world, but none of it was being broadcast because it just wasn’t the right time to share it with all of you. There were things I wanted to talk about, but I couldn’t. And to write about things that mattered less than what kept me awake at night, well that just didn’t seem right. So, radio silence.
But now I’m ready for the words to flow again.
I have lots to tell you about — Alaina’s struggles with kindergarten; my MS fatigue.
So stay tuned. The radio silence is over.
With Mother’s Day rapidly approaching, the hunt for the perfect gift for mom is on. Well have no fear, Little Rock Mamas and The Promenade at Chenal are here to help with our annual Mother’s Day Gift Guide.
Whether your mom loves jewelry, candles, knickknacks, exotic cooking supplies or a sweet treat, we’ve got plenty of ideas to help you make her feel appreciated.
If you’ve never been to Francesca’s, you are missing out. This boutique is packed full of cute clothes, jewelry and accessories! Plus, they’ve got some great Mother’s Day gifts and cards to choose from right now. In fact, I found a great card for my mom while I was snapping these pictures. Shhh, don’t tell her. 😉
Altar’d State is one of those stores where you just feel good about shopping because the company is a big believer in giving back. On Mission Mondays, the company donates 10 percent of net proceeds to a local charity. And a portion of every purchase of their in-house clothing line goes to charity. Plus, they have the cutest stuff!
Saggio Olive Oils & Vinegars
If mom loves good food, then Saggio is a great place to look for her gift. Whether you opt for their wonderful oils, vinegars or spices or choose from their stylish table accessories, mom is sure to be pleased. Saggio also sells gorgeous gold bracelets by Ronaldo, which currently are 20 percent off for Mother’s Day!
Speaking of great food, have you discovered Cafe Brunelle yet? This charming, locally-owned coffee shop is located behind lululemon athletica at The Promenade. Want to surprise mom with some tasty treats on Mother’s Day? Cafe Brunelle has macaroons ($8.99) and toffee ($6.50) packaged in gift boxes and bags, ready to go home with you. Maybe you’re thinking you’d like to give mom a cake? Cafe Brunelle sells whole cakes (double layer) for $40 and whole cheesecakes for $45. They need about three days for a specialty order. Or maybe you think mom would love an afternoon to herself. A gift card to Cafe Brunelle will allow mom to relax and unwind in their warm and inviting space. You could pair it with a mani/pedi at Luxury Nails Spa for an afternoon of mom time!
Kenneth Edwards Fine Jewelers
Are you looking to give mom something really special this year? Then check out Kenneth Edwards. The store’s helpful employees will help you find a beautiful piece of jewelry that is sure to take mom’s breath away and bring a smile to her face every time she puts it on.
I hope this has given you some great ideas for Mother’s Day. Whatever you pick up for mom, just give it with lots of love — and she will love it!
Note: This is a sponsored post. All items in this gift guide were selected by me, with the help of sales associates, and all opinions are mine.