I’m happy to report that now that we’ve gone a few weeks with the twins in separate classes at daycare, they’re doing just fine.
Splitting twins up can be a nerve-wracking thing. Most families I’ve encountered seem somewhat hesitant to do it early on because twins can be so interdependent. And they’ve always been together, so they don’t know anything but being together.
I was pretty much feeling the same way.
In case you missed the first part of this saga HERE, we ended up making the twin daycare separation decision because our daycare director had suggested to us that it might be a good move for Kayla and Kendall — especially Kayla, who’s prone to letting Kendall step in and do all the talking for her. And a spot was open in the daycare’s highly coveted kindergarten prep class that I didn’t want to lose.
The girls HATED the idea of being in separate classes at first. There was a lot of whining involved.
But after the first week or so, that all dried up.
I attribute part of that to the fact that they’re still playing together on the playground at recess and still getting back together in one class at the end of the day, as teachers leave and the rooms consolidate. So they’re not completely apart all day.
But they’ve also reached the point where they’ve made separate friends to play with, as opposed to mostly torturing each other. And they’re developing they’re own interests, too — all Kayla wants to do is art, and Kendall’s apparently big into playing kitchen right now.
Their teachers have said they’re doing great while gaining some independence from each other. I also can’t tell one bit from how they’re acting at home that anything has changed, which is also reassuring. They’re still bugging each other at bedtime yet waking up snuggled like two peas in a pod.
Now, I’m moving on to fretting that Kayla is moving ahead of Kendall on some things, like coloring in the lines better. In contrast, Kendall is much better at containing her emotions, whereas Kayla still tends to cry if you glance sideways at her. Although I have faith they’ll each develop their own different skills on their own different timelines eventually, mamas always gotta worry about something.
Fall’s biggest trends in Little Rock shops are on display at The Promenade at Chenal tonight as part of the Lights, Music, Fashion event held in conjunction with the Arkansas Symphony Orchestra and The Pointe Brodie Creek.
If you have a few minutes to get over there before 7 p.m., you have a chance to win one of these great outfits — which are all about $200. Just take your picture with the model and post it to Instagram using #LightsMusicFashion and tagging @ChenalPromenade and the store you’re in.
But if you’re on the hunt for a new game day outfit or something to wear on a night out with your girls, these outfits will all be available at the featured Promenade stores for longer. Bold colors and Aztec-looking prints are clearly winners in this lineup, along with everything red. (Go Razorbacks!)
Here’s the picks:
Another chic event is coming up this Friday from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at The Promenade at Chenal — a red carpet-worthy fall fashion show presented in partnership with the Arkansas Symphony Orchestra and The Pointe Brodie Creek that will also kick off the ASO’s Pops Live! series.
Lights, Music, Fashion will include a chance to purchase and/or win tickets to Bill Conti’s Academy Awards at Pulaski Academy’s Connor Performing Arts Center on Saturday, Oct. 4 and Sunday, Oct. 5, when a FREE kids matinee is available. (More information on the show featuring tunes from familiar favorites such as Rocky and The Godfather can be found here.)
Best of all, the fall fashion showcase featuring clothes from the hip and trendy stores at the Promenade will include a chance to win your favorite outfit out of the lineup — a prize valued at $200 that no one would want to turn down.
Sample bites from A.W. Lin’s Asian Cuisine will also be available to tide you over until after the show, when you can relax with your besties while plotting out the rest of your shopping trip.
Can’t wait! See you there!
Note: This is a sponsored post. However, all opinions are my own, of course.
Today is the twins’ last day being 3. And although they don’t entirely get it, they know big things are headed their way.
In addition to turning 4 tomorrow, we’re about to split them apart a bit and see how it goes. It’s a gamble, but we’re hoping it pays off for them.
Our wonderful daycare’s kindergarten prep program has an opening — only one. And it’s hard to predict when another one will come along, as it stays pretty full since it’s so great. It might be months.
We’re nervous as all get-out about making the right decision here. They are EXTREMELY dependent on each other. To the point where Kayla will often let Kendall, her more boisterous sister, do most of the talking for her. And everything else.
In fact, that’s why the daycare director is trying to nudge us to separate them into different classes for a bit and see how it goes. Apparently, Kendall spends most of the day pretty much forcing Kayla to do whatever she wants her to. Kayla, being a people pleaser like her mama, goes right along with it.
They just had their yearly speech and development evaluations. For the first time ever, they didn’t come back with a bunch of terrifying notes. So we know they’re making big leaps and bounds. And we asked the director if we could pull out and put them back together if splitting them apart turns out to be a disaster. So there’s a safety valve in place here.
But I have a feeling it will be a bumpy ride, in any case. Habits are hard to break. And who wouldn’t want a best friend just like themselves to help get them through the day every day?
Wish us luck!
It’s already that time — the time of the year when most of the weekend is filled with yelling, stomping and pouting. But this time, it’s not from the kids.
Football season is upon us!
Ava asked this morning on the way to school if it was “time for the Razorbacks yet.” But she doesn’t particularly want to watch the game.
Instead, she’s excited because I promised her some “girl day” time together this football season while Daddy is off in Hog Heaven. And then heavens of every other SEC team out there. And then the purgatories that are the rest of them.
We’ll be doing a little shopping and maybe stopping for special treats, like ice cream. Perhaps going to the library and the park, too, along with more boring duties like heading to the grocery store together. As the season stretches on, I’m sure I’ll have to get a little more creative. So if you’ve got ideas out there, I’m all ears.
I’m generally all about trying to find fun gameday snacks, too, to keep the herd happy. Pinterest, I’m headed your way. Can we top last year’s peppers stuffed with cream cheese and little smokies, then wrapped with bacon? Oooh, I don’t know.
In the meantime, Woo Pig Sooie! And Go Big Red, my Nebraskan friends!
Just about a month after hitting our limits with the ever-growing cracks in our tile flooring, we’re happy to have exquisitely beautiful, brand new, dark laminate wood flooring. It’s changed the feel of our home more than I ever would have expected, and let’s just say I am jazzed about it.
There’s a little more echo in the house, now that the carpeting that shared space with the tile is gone. I can live with that. And there’s quite a bit more sweeping up of dog hair, now that our previously lighter colored flooring is not hiding it in plain sight. As a clean freak, I can live with that, too.
But looking back on the overall experience, there’s some points I’d like to share for others considering a big flooring project, or any other renovation for that matter. It always helps to be prepared!
1. There will be dust. And dirt. And messes you can’t even fathom. And things will get broken, too.
You probably have no idea how much dust is lingering in hiding spots around your house already. And as much as we tried to remove our belongings, clean them, cover them up with plastic and shield them from chaos, saws still make sawdust and spread it everywhere. Kids and dogs are powerfully dirty forces on their own, and a workzone adds to that a thousandfold.
So keep your cleaning supplies at the ready. Steel yourself mentally for dusting and sweeping, sometimes repeatedly and seemingly in vain. Get new air filters, because you’re going to need them. And know that, eventually, things will return to normal.
Also know that weird accidents will happen, and they’re not the end of the world. For example, sometimes workers will move your refrigerator and a bowl full of shredded pork will fall out and break. No biggie! Also sometimes, jackhammers will shake that clock right off your wall. (It was cheap anyway. But take stuff you care about off the walls!)
2. Stay on top of things. And communicate!
When there’s people working in your home, it helps them do their job when you let them know what you want and need. Day one, I told the very helpful and jovial flooring store owner that I’m a picky lady. I’m also easygoing, for the most part. And so is my husband. So without getting our panties in a wad, when we realized we wanted things a certain way — like the stairs — we let them know.
And when a few things didn’t turn out quite right, we let them know that too. Kindly, and in timely fashion. Then things got fixed. Open communication goes a long way toward your satisfaction with the finished product.
3. Projects always cost more than you plan for and take longer, too.
Despite our saving up for this flooring for quite some time, we hadn’t thought much about things like extending the new flooring up the stairs and into the upstairs hallway for the sake of sightlines. Or needing to replace the quarter-round molding. Or that giant closet space under the stairs. Or new floor vents and a toilet seal.
Even the best planners come across a few things here and there. As we say in our house, every project equals at least four trips to Home Depot. (I lost count on this one, though.)
4. One thing leads to another.
Now that some of our walls have been painted and there’s new flooring around, gosh our old stuff looks shabby in comparison. There’s dings in the walls now that need patching and/or repainting. Our molding sure appears scuffed up now. The kitchen cabinets, as well. Home improvement is a never ending saga. It’s just part of the game.
5. Not everything will turn out 100 percent perfect.
As an engineer and an editor, my hubby and I are a very precise couple with very precise wants and needs. We like everything to be just so, just as we planned. But even we know that nothing in life is absolutely perfect. There’s a little ding in ONE board. Eek. First reaction, freakout. Second reaction, well, we can get a little coverup stick and fix that. Life goes on!
Anyone else out there have some thoughts they’d like to share? I’d love to hear them!
Who doesn’t like the idea of free shoes? Um, no one.
I have a bit of a shoe thing myself. So I’ll be hitting up The Promenade at Chenal’s Back to School FREE ShoeDAYS Giveaway! They’ve got four stores kicking in a pair for this fabulous contest: Designer Shoe Warehouse, the Nike Store, Paul’s Shoes and Warren’s Shoes.
There’s just a few simple steps so you can enter to win:
LIKE the Promenade’s Facebook page by clicking HERE. Then watch each Friday in August — starting Friday, Aug. 8 — to see which shoe store you can win from that day. All you have to do to seal the deal is LIKE and SHARE each ShoeDAYS giveaway post.
Easy! Fun! Free shoes! Can’t think of a better combination.
NOTE: This is a compensated post. But all opinions are my own, of course.
After two weeks of rearranging our belongings and evacuating everything from the first floor into the garage, playroom and master bedroom, we’re ready for flooring-destruction day.
It’s not exactly Young House Love worthy up in here right now. Unfortunately, we didn’t get everything painted ahead of time due to a hectic weekend. However, it’s about half done and we’re ready to rock-n-roll on the rest.
I’m more than ready for the chipped tile to come up, along with the dog and kid attacked carpet. So, common’ flooring guys! We’re waiting.
Something has been bothering me for quite awhile now. And the time for action has come.
We’ve been covering up a problem. In the meantime, it’s only gotten worse.
Nearly exactly two years ago, I wrote this post about our floor. Since then, the cracks have only spread. But flooring doesn’t come cheap. And we’re the kind who like to simmer on an important decision for a long time, then finally get fed up one day and spring into action.
But I’m also the kind of wife who likes to pile on.
I mean, if we’re going to do the floor, shouldn’t we get on that painting project we’ve been meaning to do for the past 5 years now?
So, instead of just clearing out the whole first floor of our house for the installation crew, now we’re painting, too. (And when I say we, I mean Daddy. Because we’re still in that divide-and-conquer stage of the game in which one of us has to supervise/distract the children if we’re actually going to get anything done.)
The children are not pleased. Their toys are crammed upstairs in every nook and cranny. It’s boring.
But when it’s done, it will be beautiful!
As we’re coming off a set of 10+ hour family roadtrips and another round just a month away, I’ve got travel on the brain.
Normally, I make tons of lists, overorganize, overprepare and drive myself batty until the moment we hit the interstate. For whatever reason, time just got away from me and I didn’t have any moments left to get all that done — and we still made it to our destination and back in one piece! Better than usual, even.
I think we’ve benefitted from getting this long car ride business down to a science. The keys are movies, music, toys and snacks. (Duh, right? But everyone’s got their own twists on this.)
Here’s our strategies:
MOVIES: Our oldest has a portable DVD player with headphones kinda like this one from Best Buy that she can operate herself from the back seat of the minivan. Money well spent, my friends. It has held up well through several years of abuse, and it plugs right into the car’s power jacks.
For the toddler twins, who clearly aren’t old enough yet to maneuver a movie screen on their own, we strap on seatback screens pretty similar to these at Best Buy. Again, this kind of setup is a bit of an investment. But over time, it’s one that pays off in sanity points. They can hook together to play the same movie, but most of the time, our girls go their separate ways and watch something different. This gives us an easy switcheroo when they’re done and extends the happiness.
We always keep a flip-book-style carrying case of movies handy since it’s way easier than hauling around a bag of movie cases, and it mostly lives in the car, so we never forget it. All we have to do is slide in the current hot tickets — Frozen and How to Train Your Dragon, naturally — and we’re on the move.
For a cheap mood booster once everyone’s hit their limit in the car, stop at a McDonald’s for lunch and hit up the Redbox. Nearly all of them have one, and you can return the movie at your destination or another McDonald’s along the road. This makes the kids rather happy, and it’s pretty cheap, too!
MUSIC: Everyone knows music sets the mood. After a long round of movie watching, switch them off for awhile and take a break for some music.
We still have Baby Einstein in the rotation for sleepytime, although it’s rare that we actually have kids sleeping in the car these days.
For the most part, I prefer a round of peppy car dancing to help nudge out everyone’s grumpies. It also helps everyone move a little bit, lessening complaints about being trapped in car seats.
Our rotation right now is generally “Happy,” “What Does the Fox Say” and the entire Frozen soundtrack. And Kids Bop 20-whatever. I’m amazed at how those CDs get even the 3-year-olds into a groove.
TOYS: Previously, I packed vast bags of small items to constantly interchange among the children in an attempt to keep everyone entertained. Over time, I’ve realized that all that does is lead to things getting thrown down on the floor, which adds to my own nuttiness because then the van’s a mess and no one can move around on it.
Instead, this time we stopped at Walgreens at let each child pick out one thing from the toy aisle. (They often have buy one, get one free deals there, too.) Kayla and Kendall each picked out a sticker/activity book, and Ava chose Gak, which somehow managed to stay contained. Somehow, this one small switch seemed to make a big difference — when you give children choices, it makes them feel special.
SNACKS: Again, this is an area where our kids’ ability to make choices has let to a happier trip. We start out from home with everyone getting a sippy cup or juice pouch and a breakfast item. At any post-lunch stopovers, I have stopped packing a big bag of things that end up getting crushed, instead letting the girls each pick an item for themselves at whatever gas station we land at.
For the most part, our kids don’t eat a lot of junk food at home, so it’s still a genuine treat to them when we’re on vacation. They also usually enjoy sharing their treats with each other, so everyone gets a little bit of each thing. Last time, this was chips, gummy bears and Twizzlers. (Note: This was kind of a treat for mom to snag a bite, too!)
If anyone out there wants to share their travel sanity tips, I’d love to hear them!