I just finished reading my Facebook feed this morning. Given that it is the day after Valentine’s, a lot of the posts were either from people talking about what they got/did for the day or from single friends talking about how the day isn’t one of their favorites.
Those conflicting viewpoints seemed like a good blog post. 
I admit, I’m a big fan of Valentine’s Day — now. When I was younger, it was a total downer. I never had a boyfriend in high school or college, so the only time I got anything for Valentine’s was if my parents thought to send me a balloon or flowers.
After college, I never seriously dated anyone until Matt — so Valentine’s was the same story. One year my brother-in-law Kevin did manage to make mine and Monda’s day by bringing us roses. Hers was from Tom Cruise and mine was from Kid Rock (I had taken Kevin to that concert for his birthday).
So I totally know where my single friends are coming from. Even if you embrace your singleness, it can be hard on a day that is devoted to coupledom.
I’m sure Matt and I don’t make it easy. You see, my husband and I are big observers of Valentine’s Day. We both see it as a reminder to appreciate each other. He knows I love flowers, so a bouquet is usually sent to me. I try to find something that will make his day. This year, inspiration was lacking so he got candy — but can you really go wrong with Whoppers and Sour Patch Kids?
For me, the day isn’t so much about flowers or gifts or romantic dinners, its about a reminder to tell Matt how much he means to me. I try to do that other times, but as life gets busy, its good to have a day that is about that.
So, what does Valentine’s Day mean to you? Is it a downer? Is it a chore? Or do you enjoy the day? The comment-line is open.
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We didn’t celebrate with gifts but we were talking about the 15 years we’ve spent Valentines together and all the happy years to come (Good Lord willing!)
15 years?!? Wow, it is hard to believe you and Kev have been together that long!
I did something totally different this year for Valentines day. My husband and I helped out to bring happiness to the people that have to stay at the Ronald McDonald house. The tables were decorated and we served them home cooked food. They don’t get treatment like this very often. We left last night with all the smiles (of what we could see because of some children had to wear mask). Even a very young baby had a mask on. But could see from their eyes that they were smiling. There was laughter and hugs and full tummies.
A very enjoyable evening we had. My son-in-law’s birthday was also on Valentines day. Sorry to him that we were not able to help him celebrate.
What a beautiful way to spend the day, KatyTweety!
What a great way to spend Valentine’s! Thanks for sharing that with us.
Sounds like a Great way to celebrate Valentine’s Day. The world needs more people that are as giving as you!
This year we do any celebrating. I have been a little down and one of my best friends lost their dad. I went to Newk’s with my family and a friend. Here’s looking forward to happier days.
OK, I can’t type…
This year we didn’t do any celebrating………….
So sorry for the sad times.
I told my husband not to do anything because he had just made us matching night stands. But he surprised me with some pretty flowers (not roses!) in a vase from home that he had decorated with a ribbon from our stash. I loved that he used our own stuff.
(In high school, I would throw movie night parties for us girls. We’d watch all the sappy 80s movies and binge on snacks and caffeine. Lots of good times.)